I remember that day clearly, mid of May, terribly hot day. I went to the hostel to see my friends (I usually go thrice in a week), by the time I reached, it was almost 2 o’clock in the afternoon. I entered into the apartment, removed my shoes and straight away went to the bedroom, lied down on the bed breathing heavily.
One of my friend approached to me with a notebook and a page and said,”hey dude, let’s play one game”. He tore that page into two and wrote “Bat” on one piece and “Ball” on another. I was watching curiously and said to myself “what the hell he is doing? We are not kids anymore”. Then he folded each piece of paper in half 4 times, juggled both square chits, threw in front of me and asked me to pick one. I picked one piece and gave to him; he scribbled something in the notebook. Again he did the same thing, juggling and throwing. He did that almost 15 times, I was screaming from inside with a smile on my face; “dude, please stop this nonsense”.
After doing this nonsense for 15 times he said, “You got Bat for 9 times and Ball for 6 times.”
“So”, I replied
“Every time I threw chits in front of you, you chose the chit which was closer to you”, he answered.
“So”
“You chose the chit, which was available to you easily, not the one which was away from you. Your CHOICE is important.”
Now I was irritated. “So”, this time angrily.
“I will tell you something in the evening, after some time “.
And he left the room, leaving me with the array of thoughts. I closed my eyes and repeated that word in my mind.
“CHOICE”
Eight months back I chose to quit my job from very good organization. That was a choice. Till this point my parents think I have not done anything productive in last eight months. Well I think differently, it was the most productive period of my life. I did lots of things that I would have never done while working in that prestigious organization. Ok then quitting job was good choice.
In Harry Potter and chamber of secrets when Dumbledore tells the young Harry Potter
‘It is our CHOICES, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.’
From Sunrise to Sunset, Every day, every moment, we chose something over something. And these choices create our identity, tell people around us what we truly are from inside. Some choices brings us joy, some brings disaster. Some choices bring need of working hard so that you can be happy in the long run. Our every choice is nothing but pursuit of happiness and happiness comes from within. I believe God gave us complete control over our destiny.
“He gave us……the power to choose.”
Og Mandino, Author of “The Greatest Miracle in the World” writes in his book, “Think of the choice you have made in your life and recall, now, those bitter moments when you would fall on your knees if only you had the opportunity to choose again. What is past is past….. Use wisely your power of choice.” Then he adds
Choose to love….rather than hate.
Choose to laugh….rather than cry.
Choose to create….rather than destroy.
Choose to persevere….rather than quit.
Choose to praise….rather than gossip.
Choose to heal….rather than wound.
Choose to give….rather than steal.
Choose to act….rather than procrastinate.
Choose to grow….rather than rot.
Choose to pray….rather than curse.
Choose to live….rather than die.
Enjoy this day, today…and tomorrow, tomorrow.
And at last, I choose to write few lines of the poem “The road not taken” by Robert Frost
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I CHOSE the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.”
(I have used the word “chose” instead of “took”....)